Rev. George F. Conner in Berry Long Memorial Methodist Church
In 1939 Rev. Conner accepted the assignment as Pastor of Sellers Memorial Methodist Church in Upper Darby, Delaware County. This Church was also referred to as Bywood, which was the name for that neighborhood. The parsonage was on Sellers Ave. behind the Church, while the Church faced State Road. George and Olive moved in here with their son Richard and daughter Tootie. Here is a photo from 1939 of George Conner, daughter Winifred, grandson Edward and mother Carrie.
Dick would enter the Navy and marry Andrea Flock in 1940, so he would only live here a short time. While serving the Bywood community, George became a charter member of the "Upper Darby Optimist Club". Below is a photo of the Conner family in October 1940 on the grounds of Sellers Memorial Church.
George and Olive took an extended trip to Nova Scotia
during the summer of 1941. They travelled by automobile from Upper Darby to
their destination. In a letter sent home to the five children, Olive described
their adventure as the experience of a lifetime. She described the Halifax
Harbor, Lunnenburg, the "Ovens" which were caves washed out of the cliffs by the sea, New
Brunswick, fishing for tuna and watching the fishing schooners come in from the
Grand Banks. Below are two photos, one of Olive & George on a boat outing and the second of George and his catch of a giant tuna!
A lover of the water and of ships, George was an ardent yachtsman and owned a number of cabin cruisers, including a 35 foot boat, The Caroline, named for his youngest daughter. Other boats he owned included The Anthea, The Polly and The GeoCyDick. A remembrance of George Conner from a grandson; "Grandfather kept his boat at the Essington Yacht Yard on the Delaware River. One day when his grandson Ed Zwicker was about nine or ten, he took Eddie with him to do some repairs. While Grandfather was busy, Eddie cut himself on one of the tools. Apparently there was no antiseptic on board because Ed vividly remembers, to this day, Grandfather holding his hand over the boat rail and pouring turpentine into the wound."
He kept a ship's log during the years 1942 through 1948 which was an account of trips taken while on board The Mokoma, named for Lake Mokoma in Laporte, PA. The log recounts locations visited along the Delmarva coast and Upper Chesapeake Bay area. It tells of swimming adventures, meals prepared on board, weather conditions, fishing & crabbing excursions, sermons given on ship and the enjoyment of being with family and friends. One entry from August, 1944 tells of an evening with George and Olive along with their close friends from Berry-Long Memorial Methodist Church, Charles and Trudy Blose. Charles was the church organist and Minister of Music. His wife Trudy was choir director. The Ship's log entry reads; "Arrive Georgetown, Maryland. Met Olive and Trudy who drove down by auto, arriving at 16:15. Selected mooring near swimming hole about 1/4 mile from pier. A beautiful site in Georgetown Harbor among yachts, sailboats etc. Settled ourselves on board and had dinner on boat. After a quiet evening, admiring the spot and the beautiful heavens when the stars came out, we were led in our devotions by the 'Skipper'. About 24:00 retired for night - Skipper and mate in the cabin and the girls on the rear deck." Below are photos of George F. Conner at the helm.
During these years George Conner served during World War II with the United States Coast Guard Auxiliary Reserve as a Chief Boatswain's Mate and was discharged at the end of the war as an Ensign. By 1948 he was Commander of the USCG Auxiliary Flotilla No. 22 which met each month at the U.S. Naval Reserve Base at Eddystone in Delaware County, PA. Below Commander George F. Conner appears in his uniform.
A member of the U.S. Coast Guard Auxiliary who served with Commander Conner eulogized him thus: "If there ever was a skipper who had the unusual ability to send his craft hurtling through a crowded anchorage and still not leave a disturbing wash, that man was our beloved chaplain, the late Reverend George F. Conner. I am sure that I speak for every man-jack in the outfit with these simple words, "So long Doc . . . we'll see you later, when The Admiral calls the Big Rendezvous."
The year 1942 brought Rev. George Conner back to Philadelphia. Berry-Long Memorial Methodist Church requested he return to them as pastor. Below is a piece of stationery that Olive Conner saved from that time ~
All the Conner children were married with children of their own by this time, except for Tootie. During the two years Rev. Conner had been pastor of Sellers Memorial in Upper Darby, the congregation at Berry-Long increased and Philadelphia was a busy, bustling city. The parsonage was about a block away from the church at 5816 Springfield Ave.
Over the course of his life George Conner would spend many happy days with his family in Laporte, PA., birthplace of his wife, Olive Keeler Conner. The family would always go down to Lake Mokoma, right outside of town, for swimming and fishing. Here are two photos of George Conner, the first with his grandson Edward in 1938 and the second with grandsons George and Robert in 1946.
When the family gathered in Laporte they would stay at Hy-Top, a house which had been built by Olive's father. Here is a photo of George Conner tarring the roof of Hy-Top in 1946.
Reverend George F. Conner would preside over Berry-Long Methodist Church until May, 1948. At this point in his life George F. Conner was a member of the Mt. Moriah Lodge and the Blue Lodge, Fraternal Order of Masons.
By the time he was called to his next assignment in Chester, Delaware County, George and Olive would have eight grandchildren; Edward (born 1937), Janet (1938), Maureen (1941), Dianne (1941), George (1942), William (1942), Robert (1944) and Barbara (1946).
A rather unusual honor he would receive during these years was to have a flower named for him. The George F. Conner Iris was "born" in Collingdale where his daughter Grace and husband Bud lived. Grace and Bud had a neighbor and dear friend named Bob Grenfell. He was known as Reds to his friends. Reds had greenhouses and loved to experiment with Irises. He grafted two species together to create a new color and in Aunt Grace's honor, named it after her father. Here are some descendants of that very Iris, blooming in Oreland, PA., over seventy years later.
In June 1948, Reverend George F. Conner would accept his final assignment. George, Olive and their daughter Tootie moved to Chester where he became pastor of Trinity Methodist Church at Eighth & Butler St. George Conner was always an active personage in the various communities he was assigned to and quickly embraced the Chester neighborhood.
It was about this time that Rev. Conner was named to the Methodist Conference Committee that was responsible for interviewing seminary graduates before their ordination. His pastoral duties during the summer of 1948 included performing ten baptisms, six marriages and two funerals. He participated once a week in a morning religious radio program on WVCH, during which Mrs. Nathan Berry and his daughter, Caroline, sang duets. The young adults of Trinity, remembered him fondly for his outstanding contribution during their weekend retreat at Pocono Plateau during the summer of 1948. He delivered the invocation at the teacher's meeting of Chester High School on Tuesday, September 7. His last public appearance was in the pulpit of Trinity Methodist Church on Sunday, September 12, 1948. That Sunday morning he preached on the subject of "The Tragedy of Being Lost" and in the evening his sermon was "God's Well of Salvation." The next day, Monday, September 13, was to be his last. That Monday evening George was working in his study of the parsonage, next to Trinity Methodist Church. Family members recall he was listening to one of his favorite operas; Cavalleria rusticana by Mascagni. His son Cy was visiting his parents that evening and he saw his father come into the living room of the parsonage, evidently in distress. Cy telephoned for a physician at 11:30 p.m. and shortly afterwards Rev. Conner was admitted to Crozer Hospital where he was pronounced dead soon afterwards. He was 56 years of age.
On Wednesday evening, September 15, there was a viewing at the Ray F. Imschweiler Funeral Home at 1600 Edgmont Ave. in Chester. Below is a photo of the funeral home during that time period.
Funeral services were held Thursday afternoon at 2 p.m. in Trinity Methodist Church. Services were presided over by Dr. W. Galloway Tyson, District Superintendent of the Methodist Church. Reverend Charles Brodhead, pastor of East Lansdowne Methodist Church gave the Scripture reading, followed by a prayer offered by Rev. Alonzo Fite, pastor of Tacony Methodist. A soprano solo was sung by Mrs. Berry, a member of the church choir, after which Dr. Leon Moore of West Chester Methodist Church presented the sermon. The closing services and invocation were then given by Dr. Tyson. Thirty members of Flotilla 22 from Essington, the Coast Guard Auxiliary Unit which Rev. Conner commanded, were present. Members of the unit in full dress uniform stood guard about Rev. Conner's casket before the altar during the entire service.
Flowers were banked completely across the front of the Church, sent by Rev. Conner's family, friends and parishioners of Trinity Methodist. Flowers were also sent by his former parishioners in Philadelphia, Norwood, Bywood and Pottstown. All the pews of the church were filled. Below is a photo of the interior of Trinity Methodist Church.
Serving as pallbearers were Rev. Brodhead, Rev. Eaton of South Chester Methodist, Rev. Felton of Booth's Corner Methodist, Rev. Kern of Upland Methodist, Rev. Barnes of Marcus Hook Methodist, Rev. Keiser of Swarthmore Methodist, Ray Salmons of Trinity and John W. Lawton - president of Board of Trustees of Trinity Methodist. That evening Rev. George F. Conner's body was taken to Wilmington, Delaware, his native city, for cremation.
Rev. Conner was eulogized as a "man's minister", one who was at home in the pulpit, in civic affairs or at the helm of a boat. He was remembered as one who did not compromise with evil and was modern in his outlook for Methodism and the community. Respected by all races and creeds in the communities where he lived and served, it can truly be said of him that he lived on in the hearts of all. It was noted he died in the most active period of his life and his sudden death cut short a career that was far from finished. Two years after his death his daughter Caroline would marry Harry Fear in 1950. Four additional grandchildren would be born that never had the great pleasure of knowing their Grandfather; Greg Conner (born 1949), Craig Fear (1953), Dean Fear (1954) and Deborah Zwicker (1954).
From George Conner's own records in his Pastor Record book we know that during his life in ministry he performed about 675 baptisms, 330 marriages, 960 funerals and about 1,800 Sunday Sermons. Below is the cover of Rev. Conner's Pastor's Record book where all these events were recorded ~
This is a page from the Record book where he recorded some of the funerals performed ~
Of course in addition to the events recorded there were numerous gatherings at which Reverend Conner's services were given. Baccalaureate ceremonies, invocations, revival meetings, retreats and pastoral visits to hospitals and homes of parishioners in need ~ all of these events were blessed with George Conner's presence.
This last chapter in this story of a life well-lived is the last event that took place in George Francis Conner's final journey. On Monday evening, September 20, 1948, members of the Conner family and several friends boarded the late pastor's cabin cruiser, The Caroline, at Essington, Delaware Co., PA. George Conner's sons Cy and Richard guided the craft to the middle of the Delaware River and distributed his ashes on the waters he loved so well. A final entry in George Conner's Ships Log was written in his son Cy's handwriting; "This trip will be a memoriam for our Great Skipper - Dad. As I sit here in a deck chair that Dad sat in and feel the boat lifting and surging ahead, I know that Dad is here with us." The ashes of a boy from Wilmington who grew to be a man loved by many and respected by thousands were taken by the breeze and spread amongst the water. The final words read on board The Caroline that day were those of Alfred Lord Tennyson's who wrote George Conner's favorite poem,
Crossing the Bar:
"Sunset and evening star,
And one clear call for me!
And may there be no moaning of the bar,
When I put out to sea,
But such a tide as moving seems asleep,
Too full for sound and foam,
When that which drew from out the boundless deep
Turns again home.
Twilight and evening bell,
And after that the dark!
And may there be no sadness of farewell,
When I embark;
For tho' from out our bourne of Time and Place
The flood may bear me far,
I hope to see my Pilot face to face
When I have crost the bar."
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